Sunday....

Famiky emergency of my boss's lead me to working today... can't complain.... with spring break all my good tenderoni's have family to deal with.... :P oh well.  

Sometimes things aren't what they seem...

Last Sunday I met a nice guy. He was sitting at a bar when my friend/ relationship coach and I got there. She struck up conversation, we ended up at breakfast. First meeting him I was very confused and didn't understand the purpose of her trying to hook us up. After spending some time with him I totally understand. He is great!! Although dating is still questionable I just have so much fun with him. He is very open minded, laid back, warm and kind. I have to give my friend her due props! If nothing comes of it, I made a great friend who makes me laugh a lot and is fun to hang out with! Anyways so sleepy!! Xo

The "not-a-date"

So it's Saturday night and I'm off and have no clue what I'm gonna get into. I hit up a friend of mine who I've never spent a whole lot of time with and decide that if he's super fun in small doses he'll be extra fun for hanging out. Best. Idea. Ever. We had sushi, pleanty of drinks and bar hopping for the evening!! Talk about awesome!!
It was totally not a date because frankly we'd never work... some people are just meant to be friends. So our other friend meets us at one of the bars and we have a blast... they start helping me decide what kind of guy I want to be with... it's pretty cool. I make the mental note that not-a-dates with these two are definitely going to be the highlight of my single life!

Update: Step One

So I've gotten through my contacts and deleted the majority of men who do nothing positive for me.. a few I kept because they are truly friends, a few I kept because they have valuble information that could prove useful in the long run... anyways. Went to my favorite spot for poker last night... very interesting time.... played some poker had a few drinks... maybe a few too many lol... got some interesting insight to a new guy that's been around lately.... now I'm the queen of pet names everyone is "sweetie" "babe" "honey" "boo" "doll" or some other uber sweet variation... but he was so stuck on "baby" and using it paired with the possessive "my" isn't so bad, quite endearing actually...  he is around the correct age range, has an awesome personality and this laugh that causes me to laugh hysterically... these are all pluses.... the negatives are also there but being me I can only account for those that affect me directly.... I do believe that he can at the least be a learning experience. I've already laid out the foundation for him though (just in case) I made it clear that my intentions are not to be any variation of a side chick... also made it clear I'm not willing to play into his games.... and then clearly listed the characteristics I would find desirable in a male. Come to think of it I should refind and post that.... rocky

Deleting...

Deleting contacts is a lot harder than it seems... don't get discouraged... just take a chunk at a time... and remember... if this is someone your not sure about.... *delete* don't waste your time... or memory (phone wise) lol

"Ten step plan to land a man":: the project

My good friend has the best relationship advice. Thus for the next month (maybe two) she'll be coaching me with her steps to finding a great man. I am giving her full control for 30 days at least... lol so step one is

"Delete all the negative from your life, including your contact list, your facebook, myspace, and twitter"

I figured this is because to welcome something news you must get rid of what ever is in it's way... including people taking up your attention for no reason...

So I start the daunting task of deleting all these useless people... I'm so excited... let's see how this works...

Xoxo -Rocky

You can't be serious!!

So I get a call from a guy I met a while back. He had some half- believable story about how he mixed up my number with someone elses... blah blah blah... he's super steaming hot and I end up meeting him to play pool... his friend is there... no big deal... so have a couple of drinks... play some pool.. say goodnight... he texts me when I leave asking if I'm going home I reply of course.... he's like so am I supposed to come or what? Are you effin serious??? Lol!! I literally laughed in his face... you seriously think buying 2 beers and a 30 min phone convo entitles you to come home with me? Sir have a seat. Then guys wonder why females are so scarred and overly analytical with men.... you wait a month to call me, and then expect to come home with me after an hour of mediocre pool? I am not a male basher. Trust me, I love men. ... everything about them... but some of y'all are truly sick... It seems like I've been dating more lately and it's like all signs are pointing to "become an old cat lady" lol jk... I am allergic to cats... no matter how hot you are you should never mistake playful flirting with a chick throwing her pussy at you.... the difference is ridiculous!! Sadly, super hot cop as I have been refering to him is getting deleted from my phone after I post this... he was hot though... 6'3" caramel complextion broad shoulders... and clearly he's a huge ass. Lol anyways readers spead the word.... no bullshit or sidesteping... is it so bad that a attractive smart funny and ambitious female has expectations that need to be met? they're not unreasonable... you know single, little to no kids, sense of humor... job. A legal one lol.... it's not like I am asking for multiple masters degrees lol... anywho.... on to the next..... debating about posting his picture lol... maybe that's a bad idea he is HPD lol